Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Four Years!

Love never fails.
1 Corinthians 13:8

(That's what we have engraved on our wedding bands, BTW.)


Here's a little pictorial trip down memory lane. :o) Photos by Eric McCarty/The Light Photography. Enjoy!

I love how you can see the image of Christ from the stained-glass window reflected over us in the photo.

We did it!

Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay.
Your people will be my people and your God my God.

Ruth 1:16


Reception time!

Yummy ... cake! I wish I had a piece of that cake right now. Well, maybe not THAT cake--but one like it. (We didn't even save any to eat on our first anniversary. Although we did save a bottle of wine that was in the car we took from the ceremony to the reception.)

The best DH ever! (For me, not for you! ;o))

See ya later!


About Us ...

In honor of our anniversary, I thought I'd share a little bit about our story--a short version and a longer version. (Believe me, there's an even longer version--LOL!) I wrote both of these a while back for various things.

Lookin' good! Circa 1994

Short Version
It was 1989. No, really, it was. We met at a church youth conference when we were in high school. I had big hair. He had big glasses. I lived in Tennessee; he lived in Georgia. We were pen pals for years and years ... through the rest of high school and part of college. We both moved. A lot. But I would send a Christmas card to him at his parents' address. One year after the holidays--and soon after he acquired a Sprint PCS cell phone with a nationwide plan--he called me out of the blue. This was 2000/2001, I believe. We started talking regularly. We had a few visits. I had moved to North Carolina; he was finishing up med school in Augusta. We met in NYC at Christmastime--I was there for work; he was there with a friend. It was magical! Through it all, though, we remained just friends. Although when I learned that he had kept all of the silly and uninteresting letters I'd written him--in order, in a shoe box, since 1989--my heart melted. It continued to melt up until my 10-year high school reunion. I asked him to go. He said yes! A year or so later, he asked me to marry him. I said yes!

New York, circa 2001

Longer Version
Tanna and I met in 1989--yes, 1989!--when we were in high school. We were both attending Fun In The Son (FITS), a youth conference in Panama City, Florida. He was with his church youth group from Riverdale, Georgia; I was with my church youth group from Piney Flats, Tennessee. We can’t remember exactly how we became introduced to each other--I think he might have been in my brother's small group or something. Anyway, we became pen pals. (My sister used to make fun of me because every time we went on a trip, I always tried to collect a pen pal or two. I loved writing and receiving letters via the United States Postal Service--still do, in fact.) Anyway, Tanna was one of the pen pals I picked up on this particular trip. And he turned out to be the best!

So Tanna and I exchanged letters for the rest of high school and part of college. I always enjoyed reading his letters from Georgia; they were witty and thoughtful--NOTHING like the lame, shallow notes I sent him. Over the years, we kept in touch intermittently. He went away for college and then grad school and then med school. I moved around a bit myself. A few years may have gone by with little or no contact, but I did try to send him a Christmas card at his parents’ address each year.

Then, one day soon after Christmas of 2000, I got a phone call. It was Tanna, and he had received my Christmas card and letter. (By this time, I had started including an annual update in my holiday mailing.) Tanna had gotten himself a cell phone, and he had a nationwide calling plan. As a result, we started talking on a regular basis.

A few months later, Tanna and some friends of his drove to Tennessee for a visit. Les Misérables was playing in Knoxville, which is near where I was living at the time. We all made plans to go see it together. That night, after the show, we were chatting in my living room. (Funny story--I had actually just moved to a new apartment that very day. I was so exhausted!) His friends asked Tanna and I how we met each other. I began telling the story of how we knew each other from the youth conference, how we were pen pals, etc. I then looked at Tanna and said something like, “You know, I think I still have some of the letters you sent me around here somewhere. I have no idea where, though. … Do you have any of my letters?”

He looked at me with the straightest, most serious face and said, “I have all of your letters.”

I have no idea who said what next, but I do know that my heart skipped a beat.

A few years later, after we had started dating, I asked to see the letters I had sent him over the years. Sure enough, they were in a shoe box, in order, dating from 1989. (There may be one missing, but still ...) I have a handful of his letters. You better believe I went searching for them!

Who knew that we would eventually be married one day? (Well, God knew--He brought us together, after all.) It happened on Friday, April 30, 2004, to be exact! It was one of the most wonderful days of our lives!

Circa 2004

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Guess what tomorrow is!

Weekend Wrap-up

Here are some photos and highlights from the weekend and our trip to Tennessee:

We got to watch Riley (left) and Rebekah play tee-ball!

Kate having fun with her Aunt Robin! Poor Aunt Robin got very sick before the weekend was over. :o( We hope she is feeling better today!

Uncle Steven kept Kate while Robin and I went to a scrapbooking retreat. It was her first overnight visit away from both Tanna and me, and she did great! Thanks, Uncle Steven!

While we were at Aunt Robin & Uncle Steven's house, Kate learned to climb stairs! She really enjoyed them! (Our place doesn't have any stairs, so she was having a ball on theirs.)

Here we are at the big scrapbooking retreat at Cherokee Cove. It was at the top of a mountain--literally. When I read the directions, the words "you DON'T want to get there at night" were a little disturbing to me. But it's true--I wouldn't want to drive up there at night. When the road turned to gravel, I knew we were in trouble. LOL! Seriously, though, the views were beautiful. However, I did get that same claustrophobic feeling I used to have when I lived in Boone--kind of like ... it might be a bit of a challenge if I needed to get out of there. Funny thing is, I don't feel like that when we visit home. I guess because even though there are mountains all around, there also are an Interstate and an airport and plenty of stores nearby. I suppose I am a city girl at heart!

Uncle Johnny and Anna-Claire. Guess what?! I got to hear A-C say "Aunt BeBe!" (That's me!) :o) Uncle Johnny was on the news to talk about tax-free weekend--we didn't get to see it because we had gone out to eat. :o( He's on the news from time to time to talk about retail and computers, etc. Several years ago (when I still lived in Tennessee), he was interviewed on the news, and he said, "Computer prices are going down, down, down ..." (In a burning ring of fire? LOL!) We still say that now and laugh. heehee!

Baby Kate hanging out with Aunt Anne and Uncie JJ.

Another fun cousin photo!

On Sunday evening, we met Grammy and Grampy at Cracker Barrel for dinner.

On our way back to Atlanta, we stopped in
Asheville to see Nanny, Kate's great-grandmother.

Monday, April 28, 2008

Home again ...

Whew! What a weekend--lots of activity and lots of fun! We are all back home, and it's great to be here and together again. I used to love to travel and to be on the go all the time--but not so much anymore. It's great to see our loved ones, of course, and the trouble of traveling is worth it when we get to visit with family and friends--but I do like staying home these days more than I used to. I wish our loved ones weren't so spread out! But anyway ... so much to catch up on!

Last Thursday, Kate and I headed north to Tennessee! My sister and I were off to a weekend of scrapbooking up in Mountain City, and my BIL Steven had volunteered to watch Kate! Brave, isn't he? Meanwhile, Tanna was doing some traveling of his own. On Friday, he ventured west to Vegas for a weekend with family and friends. His brother is turning 40, so the family was celebrating--AND it happened to also be the same bachelor weekend of a friend of his who's getting married in June. So we were all over the place!

There's a lot to cover, but I will try to post highlights and photos tomorrow!

Saturday, April 26, 2008

Celebrity Saturday--Carrot Top


This photo was taken in 1994 in good ol' Nashville, Tennessee! I was there for an SPJ convention, and guess who happened to be staying in our hotel!? He was checking out when my friend Kristi and I were passing through the lobby! And you know: 1. I almost always have a camera with me ... and ... B) I'm not shy when it comes to asking for a photo!

Come to think of it, this was not my only encounter with Carrot Top. When he did a show at ETSU back in the day (as in ... when I went there), I remember shouting "Dollywood" from the audience when he said something on stage. Maybe he was talking about amusement parks or something--I can't remember. Anyway, he stopped to ask what Dollywood was, and was amused. As I recall, he made a joke about roller coasters with some funny/curvy arm movements. LOL! He is so funny! I also interviewed him a few years later when I was covering entertainment for a newspaper in Tennessee.


P.S. SPJ=Society of Professional Journalists

Thursday, April 24, 2008

Big Sale at Gymboree

FYI, there is a big sale--The Spring Sale--going on at Gymboree right now. It's on older lines (like winter and back). Selection is hit or miss, depending on the store. But you may find some great deals. Price points are $6.99, $3.99 and 99 cents! And if you have a coupon, the deals are even better. Gotta run for now! Happy Shopping!

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

Atlanta Botanical Garden

Yesterday, Kate and I visited Atlanta Botanical Garden. Visitors got in free for Earth Day, so we decided to take advantage of the opportunity! It was a beautiful day for such an outing, and we enjoyed our morning there. Here are a few pics:

We loved all the frogs around the joint. They are quite the story-tellers!

"This ... is grass."
(Kate's favorite exhibit.)

This girl was too busy to pose for pictures.

Kate made friends with this froggie.

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

It's Joanna's 1st Birthday!

Happy Birthday to our niece Joanna--it's her first! :o) Joanna is our only niece we have yet to meet. We are looking forward to doing that soon! We love you, Joanna, and we hope your day today is spectacular! God bless you!

P.S. The above spread is one I did in a class at a local scrapbook store last year. The photos are from little Joanna's first day or two (or maybe even three).

About me ...

It's time for another survey ... kind of. So the other day I was tagged by Joanna for a meme. Basically, the assignment entails writing three random things about myself and then tagging five other people to do the same.

OK--here are three random things about me:

1. In college, I majored in communications (with a concentration in journalism) and minored in apparel merchandising because I wanted to write for a big fashion magazine. And actually ... some of my fashion classes were a lot harder than my journalism classes. Also ... I went to graduate school to get a master's degree in education--but I dropped out after a month or two.

2. I can keep a mean scorebook for baseball or softball. I played softball for a couple of years in high school--but only because playing sports is what you did in my family growing up. And because my sister was on the team. But I was not an all-star player like her ... so I sat the bench and kept the book. I actually kind of dreaded it when I had to play. LOL! Our coach usually had to tell me to mark an error in the book--because even if I knew someone had made an error, I always felt bad about writing it down.

3. When I was in labor (and before my epidural), the pain was so intense I didn't know if I could take it. To help myself get through it, I started thinking about others who had endured things a million times more painful. I thought of Job from the Bible ... the Jews during the Holocaust ... and Christ on the cross. It did help to put my own meager pain in perspective. Yes, we did take a childbirth class, but I don't know if I ever really used any of those pain-management techniques. I loved the anesthesiologist. He became my new BFF. (If only I could remember his name ...) When we got the anesthesiologist bill a few weeks later, I paid it right away. It was worth every penny! Oh, and I was sure to tell my BIL (who is an anesthesiologist) how much respect I had for him and his profession.

Now it's your turn! I am tagging a few extra people: Tanna, Anne, Luann, Paula, Jennifer, Karen, Angela, Kristie, Kristin, and Tara.

Here are the rules:
  1. Post three random things about yourself.
  2. In your post, link to the person who tagged you.
  3. Tag at least five other bloggers.
  4. Let them know you've tagged them by commenting on their blog with an invite to participate.

Monday, April 21, 2008

Happy Birthday, Jonathan!

Today is our nephew Jonathan's third birthday! We hope he has a wonderful day today with his family and friends in Spain! We wish we could be there to help him celebrate his special day--but we hope to see him and his family later this year. HAPPY BIRTHDAY! We love you! (By the way, be sure to check out Anne's post for more cool photos of the Birthday Boy.)

I thought I might share some of my scrapbook pages on here ... so here are two that I have of Jonathan. The bottom one is actually a pre-made page--I just had to add the photos and any copy, etc. I blurred out their last name (thought I'd let you know in case you were wondering what that blur was). The big photo is actually the front of Jonathan's birth announcement. My sister Cindy puts together such neat and creative birth announcements for her kids. I guess you get to be a pro when you have eight! LOL! :o) BLY!

Happy Earth Day! Save the Apostrophes!

Looks like this brown thrasher would like for us to put litter in its place.

And I would like for him to put that apostrophe in its correct place.

Stuff like this used to really bother me. In a former life, I have been known to call stores to let the personnel know of an error on a sign. Now, however, I just laugh. Or maybe just chortle on the inside. Perhaps I've gotten soft in my old age. But today I wonder ... I wonder if whoever created this knows of the mistake. Did anyone get in trouble over it? Was there a debate over whether to correct the error after it was done? Did anyone proofread this to begin with? Was the copy editor out sick the day this went to print? Does anyone care? So many questions ...

It's a common mistake, really. I remember a report I did in fourth grade titled "The Sun and It's Family." When I got it back, the apostrophe was circled in red. It still haunts me. Just like the time I misspelled "dinosaur" in the third-grade spelling bee. In fifth grade, it was "among." (I tried to put a "u" in there.)

In the professional realm, I also remember things I missed while on the job. Times I wasn't living up to my "Hawkeye" title (both for my position and for my last name). Ugh. I hate that feeling.

These days, when I'm just writing for fun, I don't hold myself to my normal strict standards. My old self might be horrified at the thought! Ha!

Anyway ... I will leave you with this:
And I will ask you to please make this world a little cleaner by not using unnecessary apostrophes. Please ... do what you can ... save the apostrophes. Every little bit helps.

About Last Week ...

This is another one of those posts that covers a bunch of random things ... things that happened last week.

Here we go ...
Birthday lunch with our boss! A couple of other co-workers--you know who you are--weren't able to make it. That just means we'll all have to get together again soon!

After seeing how much Kate enjoyed Trey's red fire truck, we decided to get her a similar toy. Here she is with her Little People school bus. I think she is staring to get a little more excited about it now, but at first ... she didn't seem as jazzed as I thought she'd be. LOL!

When her friend Trey came over later in the week, however, the school bus saw a lot more playing time.
Trey is an old pro at this thing. He'll be turning 1 soon--can't believe it!
Trey and Kate had fun digging around in the ol' laundry basket full o' toys.
Insert funny caption here. Any suggestions?
On Friday evening, we took a walk to the groc (and to get some take-out for dinner). It must have been the thing to do because along the way we saw at least three of our neighbors who were doing the same thing.

Eating out with Halmoni and Halabaji!
Back at their place, Kate gets tickled and tries on some shades.

Sunday, April 20, 2008

A 'Model' Baby!

So on Saturday, Kate had her first experience with modeling--well, for someone other than her Mommy, that is! What it was ... was ... she participated in a photo and video shoot featuring a new baby product--a huggable, lovable pacifier from Pacimals. Basically, Pacimals share the same kind of concept as Kate's purple frog paci--it's a pacifier that is attached to a stuffed animal. What makes the Pacimals product different is that the main pacifier part snaps off for easy cleaning--and the animals are a bit larger as well.

Here's how it all came about: I saw a post online regarding the need for babies to photograph and/or video for promotional materials for this new product. As you know, Kate is quite passionate about her pacis, and this sounded like it was right up her alley. Plus, the post said that we'd get free digital images from the professional photographer. (And you know me--I am a sucker for free photos!) I thought Kate might be too old to participate--as I think they were looking for younger babes--but it turned out to be OK. Our schedule worked out for the shoot, and so we were off!

It was a lot of fun! I got to meet some other moms who are members of one of the Mommy message boards that I frequent. And Kate did great! I kept her in her stroller until it was our turn to go. After all, a crawling, pulling-up, very curious 9-month-old loose in a photo studio with lots of props, expensive equipment, cords and such is probably not a good idea. Kate was photographed against a white background with the product--which she loved, by the way! At least, I hope they were able to get some good shots--Kate didn't want to sit still for very long. LOL! They also shot Kate holding a white board in case they can use that in creating their materials.

Kate was one of three babies there with her name! I am pretty sure she was the oldest baby there--definitely one of the oldest, anyway. She only did the white background--some of the younger babes also demonstrated the product in a car seat and in a bassinet. Everyone was very nice and pleasant, and we had a great time. I am looking forward to seeing the professional shots. Oh, and Kate gets a free Pacimals, too! As I said, she loved it--I just knew she would. Be on the lookout for these cool pacis! And who knows? Maybe you'll see a familiar face on the packaging one day--wouldn't that be neat? At any rate, we were glad to participate in the photo fun! Thanks, Pacimals!

My Gymboree Testimony

OK. I thought the next post in this series should include a little background. So I thought I would share with you my Gymboree testimony. (FYI, if you're just joining us, this the second installment in the "Gymbo Mumbo Jumbo" series, which is about Gymboree clothing and how to buy it for less.)

I used to be one of those people. You know the ones. I used to walk by the Gymboree store in the mall and think, "That stuff is way overpriced. Why do people shop there?" I also used to kind of make fun of the whole matchy-matchy thing, too. I know--be careful what you make fun of, right? Because now I like the matchy-matchy, and I've been known to try to coordinate Kate's outfits with her cousins. heehee!

For the record, I still believe that Gymboree is overpriced ... IF you are paying retail. But as we discussed last week, there's really no need for that!

I guess I started venturing into the Gymboree store last year when I was expecting. I was on the lookout for cute baby clothes (not that we needed any, what with all of the adorable gifts and hand-me-downs we received ... but I still like to look). I think a sale sign probably drew me in. I believe it was RBS time. ("RBS" refers to the "Red Balloon Sale," which I will cover in a future post about Gymbo's sales.) I found some adorable dresses for our nieces at either $5.99 or $6.99 a piece. Not too bad! (And I didn't even have a coupon!) Then I ended up getting some little hats and other accessories such for 99 cents! I put these things away and didn't give Gymboree much more thought until after Kate was born.

Well, when Kate was not quite two months old, I found myself at the mall for a haircut and some "me" time. Tanna was home with the babe. I eventually ended up at Gymboree--I was armed and dangerous with a gift card AND a coupon! At the time, I had NO IDEA how valuable Gymboree coupons were (more on this in a future post). As for the gift card, we had received it several weeks before, but I hadn't used it yet. I actually remember being in another Gymboree with my SIL about a month after Kate was born. I didn't buy anything, but I do recall telling her that I had a gift card and commenting on how expensive everything was. But I digress ...

So this time, there was another sale going on. I'm not sure which one, but I found some more really cute hats and accessories for cheap, cheap, cheap! Some were even less than a dollar! I also bought Kate a little dress. I used the gift card and the coupon and was amazed at how much merchandise I got for so little money! I was just starting to learn how to shop at Gymboree.

Then I stumbled upon GymboFriends.com. If you haven't joined, then you need to. As previously posted, I learned a TON about sales and coupons and discounts--not to mention Gymboree basics ... such as how coordinating clothing collections are released in "lines" with names and how some lines coordinate with bigger sizes and other boy/girl lines (so you can match siblings, cousins, friends, etc.). The site even has an archive of photos from past lines. I should warn you, though--GymboFriends is addictive.

Well, I guess you could say that the rest is history! The clothes sure are cute--but really it was the bargains that got me hooked! I suppose has to do with the thrill of the hunt--the hunt for a great deal ... and also the hunt for matching pieces. It's so fun to find coordinating pieces and matching accessories from the same lines. And when you combine a coupon with marked-down merchandise ... well, it really is remarkable the deals you can get! I will be elaborating on this, but let me leave you with one quick example.

I was recently going through Kate's summer clothes to see what all we had in what sizes and what we might be needing for the warm-weather months. Here is a cute outfit from Gymboree that I bought for her last year. Total cost (before tax) for this outfit was ... $3.52! The top was a whopping $1.28, and the capri pants were only $2.24! Now ... I do need to explain something that the die-hard Gymbo fans already will have noticed. This is an example of "line-mixing," which is wearing two pieces from different lines at the same time. For the hard-core folks, this can be frowned upon--but it doesn't bother me in the least. I think it looks very cute! And for $3.52, who cares?

P.S. Disclaimer: Because we live in a big city with many Gymborees in the metro area, I admit that it is easier for me to shop around for great deals. (More Gymborees=more inventory, etc.) But even if you don't have a Gymboree near you, you can still find some awesome prices on the Internet (both on the Gymboree site and on GymboFriends and other places).

P.P.S. Please let me know if you have any specific questions or topics that you want me to cover. I'm not an expert (like some of the ladies on GymboFriends), but I'm happy to share my experiences.

P.P.P.S. The top photo was taken on Black Friday. This day-after-Thanksgiving sale is one of the biggest for Gymboree fans. I'll be sure to cover it in an upcoming post. Happy Shopping!

Saturday, April 19, 2008

Celebrity Saturday--Franklin Graham

This week's celebrity is the Rev. Franklin Graham-- evangelist, ministry leader, author, and son of Billy Graham. Why did I choose Franklin Graham this week? Well, I am glad you asked! I wanted make you aware of his upcoming Festival, which will take place in Knoxville April 25-27.

If you are in or near Knoxville--or even if you're not, but you are looking for something to do next weekend--you should go to the event! Not only will you hear Franklin Graham speak and preach the Word of God, but also you may see the likes of the legendary George Beverly Shea and Cliff Barrows--not to mention Michael W. Smith, Ricky Skaggs and Toby Mac. And who can forget Dennis Agajanian and the Tommy Coomes Band? There is also an event for kids on Saturday morning--you should check it out!

Getting back to the photo: I first met Franklin Graham in Kosovo in December of 1999. I was a reporter/editor for a newspaper in Tennessee, and I was there on an Operation Christmas Child shoe-box distribution trip. (In case you didn't know, OCC is a project of Samaritan's Purse, an international disaster-relief organization). Little did I know that, just a year and a half later, I would end up working at Samaritan's Purse! I saw Franklin Graham a lot more then, but I didn't ask for a photo every time--because, well, that might be kind of weird. Even for me.

P.S. I know you are totally digging the photo and my overgrown eyebrows!

P.P.S. I have another photo--with some of you gentle readers in it--that I need to find. Stay tuned!

ETA: Here's that other photo:

Sorry it's a pic of a pic--at press time, our scanner wasn't on the up and up with this computer.